The conversation went something like this:
'There's a band playing in town and so many people have come in the shop and said they are great to jump around to so I reckon we should go!'.
'Err no offence but most of the people in your shop are either on drugs, have taken so many drugs they may as well still be on them or need to be on drugs'.
'Yeah but it'll be a laugh'.
'Oh go on then.....'
I should have known then and there things would not quite go as we both imagined.
I mean last time Badger Girl took me 'out for the night' we drove to some obscure seaside town to attend this 'amazing' clubnight she'd found out about.......Pulling up on a deserted strip of dimly lit scruffy seaside buildings amidst barren sand dunes, things didn't look all that much 'banging' or 'happening'. Pulling down my gladrags we made something of entrance into the 'multipurpose recreational use' building' where this supposed 'clubnight' was occurring.....
70 rheumy eyed pensioners raised their heads from their Bingo games and generous portions of 'chicken in a basket'. Confusion was rife.
Wrong night, wrong venue, probably the wrong town - we never did quite get to the bottom of that one.
Anyhow - I should have been wary.
So on Friday night I got dressed up and picked up my friend - who was kitted out in 3 foot long hair extensions, cherry red patent stack heeled boots and a white top slashed to the waist. She looked 'noticeable'.
We arrived at the 'venue' (you know what's coming here don't you? You know its not going to be good.......).
We stumbled up the stairs.
Past the stair-lift.
Past the table with an old man in a hat who was either meditating, taking a nap or had gone to meet The Reaper. Either way - he wasn't having a whole lot of fun.
We entered the room.
We were greeted by flashing strobe lights, pounding music and a throng of sweating pulsing humanity united in the rapturous appreciation of what music can do to your soul.
No. Not really.
We were greeted by a lot of people that's for sure but nobody was in any kind of rapturous state. Or in fact even moving much.
Some were sat on plastic garden chairs looking very serious. Some were sat on the floor, perhaps fondling someone else, perhaps swaying slightly but all the same looking very serious. Some were standing up BUT also looking very very serious.
People were wearing fleeces. Or political t-shirts. One lady had even kept her anorak on.
Badger Girl pushed past what appeared to a Geography Field Trip heading for Snowdonia, stumbled to the bar and ordered 2 bottles of WKD Blue.
People were staring. And I don't just mean giving us puzzled looks. I mean giving us looks that could easily turn lesser mortals to stone. I began to fear the door would be locked behind us and we'd be offered up to the Gods of Life is a Very Serious Business for typifying all that is wrong with today's world (i.e people are still having fun when there's so much wrong with it).
Nobody was moving very much so we tried to stand still and look serious and listen to the 'music'.
There was a lady on the stage in a leather corset and tights with hearts on (not to mention a tail) playing an accordion in the style of 'Theme Tune from 'Allo 'Allo' and 'singing' (but actually it was more like talking) over the top of the music.
She broke into her next number with the line:
'A munter fell in through the flaps'....
Badger Girl and I exchanged a shocked glance. Quickly followed by a screech of laughter.
'Did she just say 'munter'?'.
'A dog cocked it's leg and pissed on mine.....'.
'And the government is sh1t and we can't get out of it.....'.
By this point we had started to laugh deep and hard.
I mean that was the point surely? You can't start a song with the words 'munter' and 'flaps' and expect people NOT to laugh? Surely?
But nobody else was laughing.
Far from it.
Several pale reedy looking young men were looking SO serious that their eyes were almost shut, in a kind of devote meditation. It must be a terribly soulful and draining experience thinking very very hard about a dog pissing on your leg.
The more we tried to conceal our mirth the more it came shuddering out. Tears rolled down our cheeks. Hopefully others thought we were crying about the state of the government. But I doubt it.
It appears you can't act even a tiny bit happy during protest songs. Even ones about dog piss and munters.
The next song was something about politicians and bankers having too much money and deriding the fact that they never went to Primark or Poundland. There was then a repetitive line about Asda Smart Price Pasties.
And nobody was laughing.
For the next number she announced it was one where 'we might want to get down on the floor'.
'Yay!' I shouted 'it's Oops Up Side Your Head!'
But it wasn't.
It was (and I wish in a way I was making this up but actually you couldn't) a song about the merits of growing vegetables which contained the line:
'And maybe if Hitler had spent more time manuring his leeks he wouldn't have killed 6 million Jews'.
Well there's something for the University Debating Society.
We got up again for the next song, which I'm glad about as it was about a man killing his wife and burying her under the patio and nobody realising because they were all too busy washing their net curtains and thinking he was a decent guy because he kept his car clean. This sounded more like a plot from Brookside eons ago than a radical new idea for a song but hey ho - by this time Badger Girl and I were daring eachother to shout 'Vote Tory!' just to get the rest of the crowd moving (even if it was towards us...... with bottles).
The show climaxed with a song which sounded exactly the same as all the others and (just for a change) centered around themes about how terrible the government is, how Bankers must die, how being poor isn't fun (really? Wow! I never figured that one out) and means you have to do things like catch the bus but at least it means you're not working for 'The Man' and something to do with being obese and documentary making (or maybe that was me just wishing I had a camera crew with me).
Never have I been so tempted to shout the words 'Blow your Whistles - we're going HARDCORE!'. Just to, you know, see what they did.....
At this point someone came up to me and told me they liked my handbag. So perhaps Capitalism isn't totally dead? Or perhaps they were being ironic.
The music then stopped and we were told CDs were available to purchase at the back of the room.
By this point I'd laughed so hard in a sort of 'internal trying to hold it in fashion' my hernia had popped out.
Yup that's right folks - like an old teddy bear that's been through the wash just too many times it appears my stuffing is starting to pop out through my seams.
Well I'm guessing it's a hernia, I haven't actually been to the doctors yet. Either that or it's the Alien getting ready for a sharp exit. Which would probably delight both my sons and provide a suitable playmate for the younger one but I've had my fill of sleepless nights so I'm hoping it's the first option and just a hernia.
The next band then came on and they were far far better (in a jump up and down and throw your arms around like a loon fashion) but my jumping was curtailed by a fear my guts would fall out.
'Urgh, I need a truss, and a sports bra' I moaned to Badger Girl (whilst musing that I clearly wasn't in the first flush of youth anymore - I can never remember wishing for supportive undergarments on a night out before. Another bridge crossed and all that.....).
'I've got a truss you can borrow!' she grinned.
'Yeah - I've got loads in the shop - lets go back and get you in one'.
'Err there not medical trusses are they? More like PVC fetishwear or kinky fancy dress outfits'.
'It'll do the same job! Hold your bits in! Come on....'.
'Thanks but I think I'll just dance slower'.
I really DON'T think the rest of the audience were ready for me to reappear dressed as a PVC ladybird.
And on that note, later in the year Badger Girl and I are off in her camper van to a 3 day festival.
She's already booked her hair extensions and spray tan.
I don't think this is going to be your typical festival experiences but I'm sure it'll be highly entertaining...... I might need that truss after all.